I am a working professional, separated and getting divorced. There is no anger about the divorce, it was by mutual agreement. Over the last few years, I have lost (or lost track of) many good friends. It caused me to "pull in" like an emotional armadillo. That is over. But I am still reconnecting socially. (A little patience here will work wonders.) I am in the process of starting a new career. I am no workaholic, but do believe there is something important about work and/or peral achievement. I like new experiences and mix well with most everyone. I am casual and easy going, but I have opinions and will voice them. I have lived in 7 states and have traveled extensively abroad. I am a nature fan and like water, wind, trees and live stuff, generally. I am some percentage of geek, some percentage of nerd and some percent completely NON digital. I like anything creative. I like movies, books, graphic novels, magazines, some TV series (via Netflix). I even like (certain) anime and manga. I like animals of all kinds, most s, some adults. lol Physically, I guess I am what I am. I feel better now that I did 10 years ago. I would say my build is average now, 6 feet tall, between 180-190 lbs. Generally, I am in good physical condition. I stay very "active." Physically, I need to explore more. Intimacy had shrunk down to nano-scale in my previous relationship. It leaves me uncertain of what I "need" or what I "like." In the past, I wasn't "Dr. Kinkmaster", but I did have plenty of experience, just the same. Maybe I am too horny to ponder this, at the moment without a bias. The conversation keeps originating in the wrong "brain" if you get my drift. I am very open and accepting, however. Things that might help explain me: -I have been to India and Africa, but not Las Vegas. -I used to enjoy cooking but haven't done much lately. -I have owned 5 motorcycles. -I hitch-hiked 1800 mile once. -I can juggle (poorly) -I play music (better than the juggling.) Just for fun. -I have both a workshop and a studio in my home. -I spot spelling mistakes constantly. It is an ability I can't turn off. Typo-King. -I met Bob Hope once. Before he died, I mean, not lately. -I have from one to one and one half jobs at any given time. Not counting outside work or peral work. -I am part of the 99%. Always have been, probably always will be, no matter my income. -I don't drink much, but don't have an issue with others that drink. I don't take non-prescription drugs. I am drama free, disease free, no lurking surprises. I don't hold any prejudices or bias toward race, religion or peral aspects of anyone else. I am attentive, can be gentle (or not), can lead or follow. I am still learning about myself! I am very open to new experiences and ready to meet some friends. Contact me: I will reply to any email except spam. Feel free to ask questions. I will reply frankly. Wishing you a great adventure!

My Ideal Person I am hoping to meet someone who can do the following:
• relax once in a while! Take time off from "must dos" and try creative boredom occasionally. Think "porch swing" or "sunny walk."
•Smile easily. In the past I have prided myself in being generally optimistic. Eventually, life wore out my optimism. I need it back and am working hard to regain it. It would be nice if a friend could be a positive influence in that respect.
• Be open and trusting/trustworthy, both as the situation allows and unless there is an issue. In other words, take things at "face value" unless that is unwise or impossible. I am a pathetic liar, so I don't do it much. You shouldn't either. I'm a big person and can deal with truth without drama. Give me that chance. I am not asking for "100% disclosure" or "no secrets." I want to know where I am, though.
• Laugh often. I love humor, laughing and comedy. For me, it balances the seriousness of the rest of life. I like jokes and standup comedy and the way it can wipe away everything else so my brain gets to breathe.
• Be somewhat independent. By nature I am a "helper." If a friend has needs, I usually come through. If unbalanced, though, I can dig a hole that I can never dig my way out of. I have learned how to respect and provide boundaries in the past few years, but don't want to slip into and unhealthy relationship role. I have a generous nature (not discussing money here) and like to be able to exercise it without always having to second guess myself or anyone else.
• Be physical. Because I am. I like touch and all the good things you get from it and give with it. If you don't like touch you probably won't like me.
• Be open to creativity and wonder. I am a creative person and hope to find others that either participate in creativity or at least enjoy the process. I am an artist, play music for fun and have lots of "projects" on the fire at any given time.

420 friendly would be a kick as well.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, not specifically. I like real people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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