Okay...
I've been here for a little over a month now and have met some really cool people who in turn have ended up as really cool friends. But there are also those of you who are the "last nerve" or "the straw that breaks the camel's back." So let's clear up that mess RIGHT DAMN NOW...!!!
Ladies...
1. If you have "Daddy Issues" or you're still angry because he never got you that prized pony, stop reading my profile and LEAVE...right now...!!! I'll raise ren when I have my own. I will not nurture grown assed women.
2. I'm very sorry that your ex (boyfriend, fiance, husband, whathaveyou) did you so wrong and treated you like shit. It was you that decided to date a boy and not a man so GET OVER IT...!!! I don't need to put up with the heartache and pain you're going to drag with you for your lifetime. I've had baggage, too. But I've checked it at the airport when the relationship was over and the airport was nice enough to lose that shit for me. I'm ready for someone who is ready for what's next in life.
3. I know everyone has their preferences, I don't fault you for that. But if you have no want or need of black men in your life then why are you (Tom) cruising my profile...? It can't be for the dick pics, because (and this is according to what every woman says on this site) everyone has seen one before, some even bigger. So don't stop to look at mine. Move your ass on...
4. This is the BIG one: have you ever been, are currently involved in, or could possibly see yourself doing things that may end you up on Jerry Springer, Maury Povich, or any of those damned Judge shows...? If so, you need to leave,...faster than Superman leaving a fart in a roomful of Greenpeace activist, you need to go...!!!
Alright, that little tirade should of cleared out about 60% of undesirables. The only people I'm guessing are left are those ladies, women of maturity, intelligence, secure with who they are and what they want, and simply put,...FUN...!!!
These are the people I want in my life.
I'm a down to earth people per. I give you my trust until I see that there isn't a rea to trust you. I'm open-mined and open-hearted. And as much as I like sex (hey, sex is fun and it feels good; if it doesn't, get a new partner...lol) it doesn't beat out a good old fashioned honest-to-goodness friendship.
Now, how can you get with me...? Well, that's very easy...and very hard at the same time.
Before emailing me, look in the mirror; look hard. Ask yourself, "Am I a good per?" The only per you can never lie to is yourself. If you're honest,...and your answer is 'YES',...then you're the kind of per I'd like to know.
Stay sexy,...Be Good,...Be Blessed...
My Ideal Person A love of life, of your fellow man(woman), someone who enjoys smiles (because they are free).
I'm only asking you to look within yourself and be the good person you know you are.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Everyone from the Motown Era of music, disco, old school
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I step into a small room painted blue with blue neon lights
everywhere... In the middle of the room are 3 of my exes, completely nude...
they huddle up and then break formation... a soft NERF ball is in the middle one's hands... they want to play "Dodge Ball/Fuck"... <br><br>
i'm game...
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
There is something about Alicia Keyes...(lol) Maybe its
because of the book I'm trying to write and picturing
her as my heroine... I can't get her out of my mind when
I write... <br><br>
...oh, and Sharon Leal. If you don't know her look her
up and then tell me you wouldn't want to fuck her...
Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.
