[COLOR indigo][I][B]NOTICE!!!!![/B][/I][/COLOR] I've decided to take a break for a while. Seems as though the majority of people on here have no real intentions of meeting these days and/or don't know how to read. However I will be checking in from time to time. Well as you're going to find out if you actually read my profile, I'm very straightforward, just don't see the sense in not being. Yes, my name is extremedesires and once you get to know me, you'll understand why. I would love for some man to finally understand that going out with me does not mean I'm going to be dessert on the first date.......is there one out there? Really? I enjoy pool, darts, nascar, texas hold'em having a few drinks....actually, I have a long list of interest! Things I dislike....probably what the majority of people dislike! I cannot stand pushy people, players, fakes, liars, cheats,...meaning.. [COLOR crim]if you're married... don't even ask... it ain't gonna happen, nada, nope, forget it! I want to be THE woman, not the other woman![/COLOR] Guys, if you have a lot of "prefer not say" as your answers, I'm not even gonna respond. I really don't understand people that pay on here and don't take the time to fill out a profile! And, btw, "prefer not to say" on the marital status = married to me, same goes for drugs, sorry, but "prefer not to say" on that one = you do, so I just pass on those as well. I also cannot tolerate close minded people! I have bi and gay friends... I mean, duh, I'm bi.... and can't stand to hear the negative comments some men make!

My Ideal Person I tend to be a bit of a cougar, not too drastic mind you, but in saying that, guys, if you look older than me, or what your age number is, especially if you're over 40, I'm probably not gonna be interested. Hey, I'm not perfect by any means, but, there has to be an attraction! No, I don't like overly skinny or ample, sorry, no offense here, but, for 1 thing, I'm only 5 ft tall and as far as someone being ample, well, it just doesn't work for me in bed, tried it, didn't work.... as far as skinny, I just like a guy that has some meat on his bones maybe plus some! Then, there's the "jewels" size, if you're blessed with more than average, sorry, but stay away from me!
Yes, part of my extreme side is that I'm a Switch, I can be a Domme` or a sub. No, you don't have to be "into" that, I'm just letting you know, I do go there. No, it isn't a 24/7 thing for me.

If you don't have a face pic on your profile, please be willing to send me one, with your first email if you'd like a chance at a response! .... Oh and minus sunglasses and hats please! I have to see the eyes And, FYI, to those of you that are silver and gold.... standard members, such as me, can only see a postage stamp size pic, so, if you'd be so kind to send a face pic, even if it's the one on your profile, that would be nice!
Also, shame on you if you don't read my profile and send me a "wanna hook up" email..... I don't and won't!
Distance .... sorry guys, but I will not let anyone drive for me, been there, done that, it's never a good thing. No, I won't meet halfway either, I see no reason to. I'm a very busy woman and put in a lot of hours where I work so driving to meet someone just isn't in the picture at all.
Guys,I'm not interested whatsoever in "teaching" your wife, girlfriend, female friend, whatever the case may be, how to be with a woman. Sorry, but had a few bad experiences there and don't want repeats. I prefer to be with a woman who knows how to please another woman.

Yes, I am looking for more than just a roll in the hay, so to speak, and yes, I do think I can find it here. I'm not one that's looking for a FWBs relationship, I want a bit more than that out of it. Yes, I know this will scare most away, but hey, I'm telling it like it is. No, I'm not looking for marriage, just something more than FWBs. Let's just put it this way: I've been in relationships before and yes, I do like to share the person I'm with, as long as I'm there. I actually enjoy watching my partner with other people, very much! Which leads to the next thing, the word study.

Word study: Guys if you don't know the difference between compassion and possessive, please, don't even bother emailing me. They are very different!

Now, if you've actually taken the time to read this and you think there's a chance in hell that you can win my trust, (which will be hard) please, send me an email and we'll go from there.

Foot Note: If you'll notice on the groups pages that I belong to, one of them is Fun In Owensboro. If you look at the post there you'll notice one from Mist4love, it's about the parties they have in Owensboro which I go to on occasion, you might want to check them out!
Look for updates as I get the time!!!!

FYI: Be prepared to "Define Kinky" if you contact me!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
construction site

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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