I'm a reformed geek, a devoted dad, a loving husband, a serial entrepreneur, a great friend and a firm but fair Dom (when the situation arises!). I'm relaxed, generally laid back, polyamorous and occasionally mischievous ;-) The most important thing is that for me, it's all about making whoever I'm with feel good... and there are so many different ways to do that... My focus is always on making the per that I'm with happy, and give them what they're looking for... which could be occasional company, someone to talk to, someone to think about, or someone to have fun times with... or more... I never rule anything out and I'm incredibly open minded. I never judge anyone, I have enough past skeletons in my cupboard for everyone :) I'm laid back, open, honest, considerate, I keep my word and, above all else, I do love making people feel good and giving pleasure. Cuddles, caresses and massages being very high on the list. I'm also incredibly lucky, I'm happily married and my wife's happy for me to meet someone else discretely with her knowledge and blessing... so although I can guarantee complete discretion, as I would hate to see someone I was talking to get into any kind of trouble, there is no need to worry about whether it's ok to contact me and wondering whether I've been caught out (and no risk of a phone call from an irate wife!!). I don't like one-off casual meet-ups, I much prefer to get to know someone and build up a friendship, but at the same time appreciating that nothing can or should be taken for granted. I'm 5'10, reaably fit (I run at least two miles every day) with shortish dark hair. I like to dress fairly casually and am normally very relaxed and easy-going. I love chatting, flirting, meeting up and, most of all, building friendship and trust that could lead to some amazing shared experiences :-)

My Ideal Person If you're my ideal partner, you'll be fun, spontaneous, be generally positive about things, possibly a little kinky and you'll love it when I make you feel good - maybe you want a brief but fun diversion from everyday life. You might be looking for someone with a Dominant nature.

For me, beauty starts very much on the inside, personality is incredibly important and there has to be a real connection.... but the eyes and the smile are what ultimately does it for me... oh and a mix of submissiveness crossed with a little bit of cheekiness would be the icing on the cake

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Mental connection

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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