Hi there… Well thanks for checking out my profile… I am a 38 years young, black man who is sensitive, caring and passionate. I stand 5’11” tall, with a medium build. As the g goes I am looking for love, but must have been looking in all the wrong places, because it has eluded me… But still I’m looking… I am financially secure, independent, own car, own land, own house, if that’s important. I love music in all forms, and like to do the club and bar scene from time to time. I enjoy going out for a meal from time to time, but my real passion is cooking and entertaining. I say what I mean and mean what I say, while being as tactful as possible – I do not appreciate women who play games or women who try to use their head over a man. I am not into trying to change anyone, as people will change when they are ready to, and if they need help they will ask. So I will accept you for what you are or not accept you at all, depending on whether I like who you are. I like to cook and entertain, although I am a bit out of practice – its like swimming, once you’re in the water it all come's back pretty quick. Love music, of all sorts, I like to dance, and socialise. Like good conversation, and people with a positive and constructive outlook. Like watching sports, and a good movie. I like going on day trips, and weekend trips. Like and Love life.

My Ideal Person A woman who is clear about what she wants from life and is focused, honest and true. Ideal woman will look good and feel good, and will always be able to pleasantly surprise. Can give a complement as well as receive one just because its due or needed, measures herself with the same criteria that she uses to measure others. Ideal woman will give something good as easily as she receives the good things I give to her. Of course, you should be beautiful inside out, and be able to use you womanliness to bring out my manliness. My ideal woman will have balance in her life or be striving for balance.

I am also interesting in meeting, attractive, and interesting women, to spend time with and have fun.

Not looking for a perfect woman, but am looking for a real woman.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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