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Missed opportunities I regret most....
While in a local bar dance floor a young lady ask dance so who was I say no. our dance turned into our bodies grinding, then her boyfriend got behind her and it turn into a threesome grind. She then invited me to go to their apartment for drinks. I told her I didn't think that was a good idea.
A FWB ask me to go with her to a co-workers house for she was to give her co-workers husband a blowjob while the wife and I watched.
What are some of your Missed Opportunities???? |
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Mine would be business related. Missed signals happen, it’s just a matter of where your big head is at in that moment. For some men sex is the only thing on the brain, for others it isn’t.
There’s not likely anything “wrong” with you, it’s likely just a reflection of the things and/or experiences that influence your thinking. If it’s a problem for you, get some counseling, no shame in asking for professional help.
If it makes you feel any better, I would have passed on those “opportunities” (to cause myself untold problems) myself, but to each their own. | ||
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A number of years ago I was working on a project with another company...their "point person" and I were workeing together on this project...Very Lovely, graceful and I thought...'proper' British Lady about 15 years my senior. After the assignment was finished, I was invited to one of their parties and this Lady was in attendance. She was very pleasant and cordial and happy to see me again, I thought nothing of it. Later I was on the lower level of this building when who comes around a deserted corridor but Ms Proper British who without a word proceeds to grab hold of my hand and start sucking and jerking my middle finger like its a cock while giving me this seductive look. I was so shocked for a few seconds I couldn't move or speak. When some people came off the elevator she quickly broke contact and walked away without a word. Lost track of her for the rest of the evening. Tried to contact her sometime later found she'd gone "home".
A few years ago I was giving a ride home to a Lady Friend of my (now ex) Wife. Picked her up at work after my work and half way home she starts rubbing my leg and works her way up to Mr Snake, while giving me "the look" I mumble...."uhhhhh, I'm flattered but...we shouldn't do this" Turns out I should have coz my then Wife was fooling around on me while I was being faithful to her | ||
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Good topic! . When I was 12, a 15-year-old offered to show me how babies are made; we were in the play room of my parents' house and I turned her down because I was afraid of getting caught. I've regretted it ever since! . Then there was the woman I'd admired from afar who, one evening at work, sat across from me in her office with her feet on a chair, crotch in full view. She was wearing jeans and said, "Good thing I'm not wearing a dress, huh?" I totally missed the cue...and have regretted it ever since. . There are others... .  .  | ||
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Thank you gentlemen for sharing your missed opportunities, suggestions and thoughts. I'm sure it's has happened to everyone at one time or another throughout life. | ||
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Wow! Sometimes the conversations on this site stir up such memories! I'm having trouble writing about this one so I'll just make a long story short. A sales rep I had admired for a long time was at a trade show, both of us staying at the hotel where it took place. She was buying me drinks and I'm pretty sure it wasn't just because I was a customer. We had already a long flirtatious history. At the end of the evening I walked her to the elevator in the hotel. Just as I was searching my mind for a good line to join her right up to her room, an old work acquaintance appeared, totally interrupted. I couldn't get out of the conversation fast enough - turned around and the elevator with her in it was gone. Wouldn't see her again for a couple of years and nowhere as well set up as that. | ||
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interesting stories ... when I was in college I met up with a coed who I had a platonic relationship with, and her good friend to go see an outdoor "welcome back" concert to mark the beginning of fall semester. Afterwards, we went to the entertainment district to grab a burger and drink at Burger King. While waiting in line for our food, my friend's friend asked me if I wanted to get lucky. I grinned until I remembered that my platonic friend (and other people) had told me before that the girl dated a local policemen; that she was known to be flirtatious; and that the cop was known to be very jealous ..... so to save my possible health, I declined at that moment.... reconsidered later, but never could make arrangements to hook up with her after that lol | ||
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About 10 years ago I had the opportunity to meet this guy who I had known since 1st grade, he found me through another platform. We had made arrangements to meet in Houston where he lives, we were both nervous, we went to lunch and after lunch said our goodbyes, until the next day. We knew it would be a long time before we saw each other again, but we were both scared to make a move on the other person..so we missed that opportunity to enjoy each other. | ||
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My freshman year in HS, I volunteered to put on a Santa outfit for a Christmas craft show. Went as well as could be expected. After I was done, one of my classmates came walking in, wanting to know where "Santa" had gone, and that she wanted to sit in his lap and tell him what she wanted for Christmas.
I am so freaking dense when it comes to women....... | ||
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Great stories from all of you so far. Everyone has a missed opportunity in their lives some more than others. We all have that one "what if". Unfortunately most are in our youthful years, but knowing what we know now maybe we won't miss anymore....hopefully. | ||
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when i was a younger lad i was working the main gate at Moody AFB when the original gate guard was at chow. it was late and no traffic was happening so I was goofing off and wrestling with my k9 dog. all of a sudden headlights appeared from the mainroad so fido and me went to do the obligatory id check. there sat one of the most beautiful ladies I've ever seen . long curly brown locks with green eyes and huge set of natural tits. we struck up a conversation and turns out she was going to visit the one female I knew that wasn't a cop. made it a habit to see her just about every night when she came through the gate. i asked her out and she said yes so we made plans. turns out my buddy asked her out earlier and they had plans. she was going to ditch him and come with me but he showed early they spent 23 yrs together. fast forward to 2016 and lo and behold guess who I run into that's newly divorced. finally got that date but I was dating another also what made it worse was she lived in geargia and I lives in Jacksonville . we came close to a hookup both of us in the same bed drunk kissing and pulling clothes off each other but we passed out and never continued in the morning . i still torture myself even when I speak to her every other week as I'm married nowand shes not | ||
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When I was in the 8th grade, a beautiful girl moved into the area. All the boys (and one or two girls I sure) were drooling. For some reason, she was interested in me. At that age, I was a flirt but no girl really took me seriously. When she did, it freaked me out.  It was like that dog who is always chasing the rabbit. When he finally caught it, he had no idea what to do. I heard her dad was reassigned so she move away for the next school year. Every once in and while when this type of topic comes up, I still wonder what if? | ||
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My missed opportunity was a lady had a flat tire on her car. As I was changing her tire she was giving me views up her dress telling me how nice I was to help her. Looking up her dress I knew how she wanted to repay me. She wanted me to meet her husband but he was gone would I follow her home to make sure she got home safe? I wanted to but I was going to be late fire work. | ||
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I had tons of missed opportunities every time I went to the titty bars these chicks were crawling all over me. But they weren't the missed opportunity. I met several porn actresses and struck up conversations with them. One who used me out of the blue for her set was Christi Lake. She grabbed me and kissed me long, deep and hard and I dipped her to finish the kiss with a flourish. She ended her set and found me and she was asking if I wanted to be in her Fan Phuxx videos. I had to decline only because they were testing and taping over the weekend and I was travelling back home 4 hours away after taking a job in Dallas. This was 97 and she was fucking gorgeous.
Another time was earlier in my youth back in college. I met two girls at a nightclub who were celebrating one girls finalized divorce. She was blond and about 23 the other was raven haired and drop dead gorgeous with a body for sin and 22. They both had mini skirts almost to their asses. We drank and danced, kissed and then left to smoke something possibly illegal but I didn't jump in on it because they let it slip they didn't have a baby sitter after 11. On a later encounter I made it home with them and we were about to make some memories when her child woke up and came into the living room. The lovely dark haired Kim apologized and asked for a rain check for the next weekend and she would make it up to me. She worked at a salon and did my haircuts so I saw her regularly. As luck would have it, I met my wife that week and we went out every night and became exclusive which was fantastic as she stayed at my place all week. I wished I had taken Kim before then. My new girlfriend offered to do a 3 some, didn't specify m or f, but I think she had the hots for Kim, too. Considering my gfs history of bad bfs, I chose to remain monogamous. It may have been a bona fide offer, but I had the feeling it was more of a test to see if I would be a player. I chose right because my girl was Playboy pretty, but disappointed because Kim was Penthouse slutty. |
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