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A collection of thoughts and questions....and maybe some answers (but probably not).
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You're such a good friend...
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Posted:Jul 30, 2018 11:42 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2022 6:07 pm
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You're such a good friend. You're such a good listener. These two phrases, and others, spell doom for the development of any type of relationship. Other than platonic. Have you heard these phrases...spoken to you by someone you hoped to become romantically or sexually involved with? Unfortunately I have heard them many, many times. I am the good friend. I listen to everyone's problems, troubles, issues, frustrations, and sometimes joys. I hear all about the guy someone has a crush on or wants to hookup with and all the problems,etc. I listen and give advice if it seems appropriate. And then I'm left behind. The good friend who seems to always be there, yet is never good enough to be a fwb or a lover. The "really nice guy" who doesn't get the girl. Self pity...maybe. But I have to wonder what does it take for someone to see the whole picture. All I might have to offer. All those things in addition to being the good listener who is such a good friend.
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Now What....
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Posted:Jul 28, 2018 4:10 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2022 6:07 pm
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My first post wasn't much of a post. But sometimes beginnings are difficult. Beginning a paper, story, project, blog, or relationship...they can all be difficult and take a lot of energy to get started. And even more energy to start over as I sometimes need to do. First attempts at new(ish) things are never perfect, no matter how much we want them to be. It doesn't matter that I don't know what perfect looks like. I, like most folks, always strive for perfect.
So what does this have to do with anything? Well this is my second attempt at having a blog here on AdultFriendFinder. My first was when I moved to the PNW in 2011. I am hoping to write blog posts that are part therapy for me and part entertainment for others. The first step in beginning this blog journey is to figure out if I am going to have a particular theme. Or if I will just stream of consciousness my way through my posts. Don't know yet. Stay tuned.
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